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Sean Brock

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The Trees, the Fire, and the Flow: Sean Brock’s Philosophy of Flavor

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While some chefs talk about excellence in terms of technique, Brock talks about it in terms of the prefrontal cortex. It’s the part of the brain responsible for calm, focus, empathy, and good judgment—the control tower of creativity, the part that produces novel thoughts and tries new combinations of information on for size. Unfortunately, it’s also the first thing to go when you’re exhausted, overstimulated, or running on fear—which is to say, in many kitchens. “When our nervous system is dysregulated, we don’t have access to our prefrontal cortex,” Brock says. “And in my mind, that’s terrifying. I need to have as much access as possible to my prefrontal cortex. If we can stay regulated, we can stay kind, open, and creative, and that’s what hospitality actually is.”

Not all types of stress are created equal in the kitchen. Brock has learned to tell the difference between the kinds of pressure that sharpen you and the kinds that destroy you. “There are two kinds of stress,” he says. “Distress and eustress. We sum this whole idea up with a question: Is the suffering worth the contribution?”

It’s a differentiation first termed by endocrinologist Hans Selye in 1976, the Hungarian Canadian responsible for modern stress theory—the idea that one can manage the negative aspects of stress while harnessing the beneficial aspects of eustress through perception and coping strategies.

“It’s okay to have a little bit of suffering if you’re making something extraordinary that’s going to provide someone with a wonderful memory,” Brock says. “I think we all choose that path when we want to get into the restaurant world. We know it isn’t going to be easy, but the reward is worth it. So if I find myself feeling tension, I ask: Is it good stress or bad stress? Am I creating something for somebody else and giving it to them, or am I doing something I don’t want to do? That’s suffering that isn’t contributing to anything.”

At darling, the consciousness of stress versus eustress reveals itself in rhythm. Equal parts restaurant and listening bar, there’s the hum of the record player spinning through a playlist of guest DJs—and sometimes Brock himself—shifting with the time of night from vintage jazz to soul and beyond. Darling is home to hundreds of records from Brock’s personal collection, and the music isn’t background noise; it’s treated with as much reverence as a dish dropped at the table. “We pay as much attention to the music that’s being played and how it’s being played as we do to the cocktail list or the food menu,” Brock says. “It’s not just about eating great food and having great drinks. It’s about slowing down and appreciating the craft of everything and experiencing the analog.”

That analog ethos pulses through the restaurant: wood smoke instead of gas flame, vinyl instead of digital, and a pace that encourages lingering and focusing on what’s important. “It’s not a matter of removing tension,” Brock says of service. “It’s about being in the middle of it and realizing there can be peace there.”

Darling, then, isn’t a departure so much as a distillation—not Southern, not Californian, but human. “[Darling is about] just being me,” Brock says simply. “A person and a chef, not just a Southern person or a Southern chef. I’m fascinated with the foods of every place, and it’s such an honor and a privilege to be exploring this theory in a place like Los Angeles. That’s what creativity means to me: to create something that I haven’t done before, something I haven’t created before, something new.”

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