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Kelsey Barnard Clark

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Kelsey Barnard Clark on the Real Work of Leading a Kitchen

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Mentorship in the Age of TikTok

Clark lights up when she talks about mentorship—and what’s missing in modern kitchens. “There was not a day that I didn’t get chill bumps or truly, as cheesy as it sounds, tears of joy and emotion,” she says. “I was just like, God, I miss this. I miss the way kitchens used to be.”

She doesn’t mince words about what’s changed. “I have a company, lots of young people coming in, and it’s so true. They’re like, ‘Well, I’ll just look it up on YouTube.’ And it’s heartbreaking, because yes, AI is great in wonderful ways, and Google—yes, we’re all thankful for it—but it’s not going to replace a mentor.

“Google will not be your mentor. Google will just show you what someone else did. There’s a difference. The show gave me such chill bumps of, God, this feels so good, to remember what these relationships were about, and to remember, even a reminder for me as a boss, that it’s not a waste of time even when you feel like no one’s listening. Do it anyway. Do it anyway.”

Clark believes that difference—between curiosity and true learning—defines who makes it. “You can see it in their eyes,” she says. “They’ll glaze over when you’re talking and giving feedback, and that tells you everything you need to know. The dumbest decision you could ever make as a person, especially someone who’s wanting to grow, is not listening and learning at all times, even and especially when it’s something you don’t want to hear.”

The Long Game

Clark has run her business for sixteen years. “I swear to you, I had no idea what I was doing until about three years ago,” she says. “I would second guess everything, panic and spiral and ask a million people their advice. Now there’s a different calmness—like, yeah, that’s a problem. We’ll fix it. We’ll adjust. We’ll change. It takes a long time to even get close to being close to good, a very long time.”

That patience carries into how she sees Next Gen Chef’s legacy. “I want people to know what it’s like to actually want to be and to be a super passionate, inspired, driven, hard-working chef,” she says. “This show was so serious—there were no gimmicks, no tie-your-hands-behind-your-back, we’re-going-to-make-you-cry-for-TV moments. It was real and raw.

“I hope it gives people a better idea when they go into a restaurant, to just think about being kinder, more thoughtful about the food you’re eating. Food holds so much more power than a plate of food. It brings people together. It can tear people apart. The hardest conversations in the world, nine times out of ten, are over a plate of food.”

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